I thought that our marriage would be 100% fair, completely diplomatic, and that all household duties would be split 50/50.

那时我认为我们的婚姻关系应该会100%公平，完全互惠互利，并且所有家务活都是对半平分。

But because they believe that their husbands are playing an important role as providers, they view the unequal work split as fair.

但因为相信自己的丈夫在感情的忠诚方面功勋卓著，所以不相等的工作量也被视为是平等的。

In a written response to Forbes, the SEC indicates that it expects mutual fund directors, who legally represent shareholders, to take a hard look at whether the longtime dues-paying split is fair.

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Despite a Dutch philosophy that works well for both of us, we still have our fair share of money fights, like how to fairly split grocery bills with someone who eats twice as me (though I do more than make up for it in ice cream consumption).

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