期望过多：在关系中期望过多，表现出不理解自己在关系中的角色，超出了关系的适当限制。
利用(presume on), 此释义来源于网络辞典。
... presume up 把期望寄托在 presume on 把期望寄托在 presume upon 期望 ...
考：presume on (不正当地)利用 派：presumption n.假定；presumably ad.
（不正当地）利用
do with / trade on / capitalize on / avail of / turn to account
Take care that you don't presume on my feelings.
注意不要滥用我的感情。
I would not have allowed him to presume on our hospitality if I had any idea of his motives!
如果我知道他的动机，我是不会容许他利用我们的好客！
We would have to presume on the apartment staff for interviews. And I would personally preside over all of these interviews.
我们要利用 公寓内的工作人员，对他们进行面谈，而我将亲自主持所有这些面谈。
My lectures are going to presume no special knowledge on your part.
我的课程并不需要你们有什么专业性的知识储备。
现代诗歌课程节选 : 耶鲁公开课
"It is so unfortunate that the media goes on to presume that they are guilty and goes on to condemn them and demonize them to an extent that it makes the life of these people not worth living, " he said.
But his reaction also illustrates the prickliness of Chinese leaders when foreigners presume to pronounce on the eternal verities of Chinese culture.
The President has not yet seen that survey so I don't want to presume whether, based on those results, that would change their opinion or not.