停止猜测或放弃尝试
... give oneself（为...）献身 give up放弃；交出 give out分发，发出；公布，发表；用尽，精疲力竭 ...
（为...）献身
Consider a design to give oneself bring what from the on the side.
从侧面来思考设计给自己带来了什么。
Although very tired, indeed give oneself a lot of of happiness and happiness.
虽然很累，但确给自己很多很多的快乐与幸福。
I am frowsty become flustered, do not give oneself a bit job dry, I do not know how subsist.
我闷着慌，不给自己一点事干，我都不知道如何活下去。
To feel pressed to give a present is also to feel oneself passively exerting the equivalent unwelcome pressure upon other people.
WSJ: Christopher Hitchens on Forced Merriment, the True Spirit of Christmas
Not to parade the best of oneself before a wider group, but give a more personal peek into real life.